Have you ever noticed how love and the internet both have one thing in common?
They both break when you least expect them to.

And honestly, the more I think about it, the more I realize:
HTTP status codes are basically the emotional checkpoints of relationships.

Stay with me.

Developers already know these codes like they know their morning coffee order, but even if you’ve never written a single line of code in your life, trust me, you’ve lived these statuses. Because relationships? They’ve been RESTful long before APIs were cool.

And if you’re an academic, yes, Roy Fielding really did drop the REST architectural style in his 2000 dissertation like Beyoncé dropping an album… absolutely no warning.

So now that the ancestors of the internet have spoken… let’s take a walk through your love life, one status code at a time.

100 – Continue

When you text,
“Hey, I know this is random… but can I ask you something?”
And they reply,
“Sure.”

You’re not committed… and neither are they.
But you’re both curious.
The universe is buffering.
Proceed.

200 – OK

This is when the date goes surprisingly well.
You laughed, they laughed, the waiter said you make a cute couple, and even your Uber driver said, “Shame man, this one looks promising.”

Everything is working exactly as expected.
No bugs. No glitches.
Just OK in the most perfect way.

201 – Created

The “We’re officially together” moment.
A whole new resource has been created.
You’re posting soft-launch stories.
The group chat is screaming.

Love is now in production.

204 – No Content

You’re texting… but they’re replying like a firmware update:
One word.
Dry.
Emotionally powered by Windows XP.

Technically they’re responding,
…but there is NO CONTENT.

301 – Moved Permanently

They’ve healed.
They’ve grown.
They’re never going back to that toxic ex.

You may now proceed to the new location.

302 – Found (but temporarily)

The guy who says:
“I’m not ready for a relationship… but I still want to see you.”

Sir, are you an API redirect or are you confused?

400 – Bad Request

When you say,
“I’m not arguing, I’m just saying…”

And they say,
“You’re not making sense.”

Request malformed.
Try again.

401 – Unauthorized

You want access to their emotions.
They want you to chill.

Credentials missing.
Please authenticate by meeting their friends first.

403 – Forbidden

You: “Can I look through your old Instagram highlights?”
Them: “Absolutely not.”

The server has understood the request…
…but refuses to authorize it.
And honestly? Good.

404 – Not Found

They said they would call.
They did not call.

Your romantic energy cannot be located on this server.
Check the URL or your standards.

408 – Request Timeout

When you send a paragraph and they reply after 4 days:
“lol true.”

Connection timed out.
Feelings timed out.
Move on.

409 – Conflict

He wants Cape Town.
You want Pretoria.
Both of you want to be right.

The system cannot process this because you’re both stubborn.
Version control is important; in love and Git.

410 – Gone

Not 404.
Not missing.
Not temporarily unavailable.

Gone.
Deleted like a bad commit.

No forwarding address.
No emotional refund.

418 – I’m a Teapot

This is when you say things that make absolutely no sense because you’re nervous:
“I like your… elbows?”

Or when you flirt so badly even the server taps out.

This code was literally invented as an April Fools’ joke by the IETF in 1998. (Hyper Text Coffee Pot Control Protocol; yes, it’s real.)

Humans?
Also jokes sometimes.

429 – Too Many Requests

You’re texting too much.
They’re overwhelmed.
The system sends you a rate limit notification…
through vibe.

500 – Internal Server Error

Therapy.
You need therapy.

503 – Service Unavailable

Your crush is still dealing with their ex.
They are emotionally down for maintenance.

Try again later…
or don’t.

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And… where are YOU?

When you think about your current (or last) romantic situation…
which HTTP status code did it feel like?
Drop your answer in the comments.
(And yes, “500” is a safe space here.)

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